Why my wife isn't "lucky" that I'm so involved with our daughters:
We both decided to start a family. We decided to do this together. Raising our children is not my job that I'm lucky if he helps me out with. We are their parents. We are both their parents. We both change nappies, read stories, go to the park, give cuddles and get up in the night. He is a father, not my incompetent parental sidekick.
Folks: not the 1970s any more. Dads pulling their weight should be the norm.